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What’s it all about?

The best way to determine what a community wants is to listen to what its people have to say. This is a fundamental principle of democracy. Disagreements can lead to healthy debate, which brings new information and ideas to light.

When a particular issue strikes at the fundamental beliefs of a group or individual, the debate can be especially fierce. In these situations, it becomes more important than ever to practice civility.

The purpose of the Speak Your Peace Civility Project is to urge the citizens of greater South Wood County to communicate in a more respectful and effective way. This is not a campaign to end disagreements. It is a campaign to improve public discourse by simply reminding ourselves of the very basic principles of respect.

By elevating our level of communication and avoiding personal attacks and general stubbornness, we can avoid unhealthy debate. This will lead to a more effective democracy, and help maintain our sense of community by increasing civic participation. We hope to reach not only elected officials and political groups but all people, including neighborhood organizations, church groups and even the parents on the sidelines of youth athletic contests. We are not just targeting those who are uncivil, but those who allow uncivilized behavior to happen.

Our key message is to promote nine simple tools for practicing civility with one another:

  1. Pay Attention Be aware and attend to the world and the people around you.

  2. Listen Focus on others in order to better understand their points of view.

  3. Be Inclusive Welcome all groups of citizens working for the greater good of the community.

  4. Don’t Gossip And don’t accept when others choose to do so.

  5. Show Respect Honor other people and their opinions, especially in the midst of a disagreement.

  6. Seek Common Ground Look for opportunities to agree; don’t contradict just to do so.

  7. Repair Damaged Relationships Be sincere; apologize and forgive.

  8. Use Constructive Language Be mindful of the words you choose.

  9. Take Responsibility Practice accountability in language and actions.